Stories like this, always have a way of putting the right perspective on
life.
Jean Thompson stood in front of her fifth-grade class on the very first
day of school in the fall and told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at
her pupils and said that she loved them all the same, that she would treat them all alike.
And that was impossible because there in front of her, slumped in his seat on the third
row, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed he didn't
play well with the other children, that his clothes were unkept and that he constantly
needed a bath. And Teddy was unpleasant.
It got to the point during the first few months that she would actually
take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then marking
the F at the top of the paper biggest of all. Because Teddy was a sullen little boy, no
one else seemed to enjoy him, either.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each child's records and put Teddy's off until last. When she opened his file, she was in
for a surprise. His first-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright, inquisitive child
with a ready laugh." "He does his work neatly and has good manners...he is a joy
to be around."
His second-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student
well-liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness
and life at home must be a struggle."
His third-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy continues to work hard but
his mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't
show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't
taken."
Teddy's fourth-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't
show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class.
He is tardy and could become a problem."
By now Mrs. Thompson realized the problem, but Christmas was coming
fast. It was all she could do, with the school play and all, until the day before the
holidays began and she was suddenly forced to focus on Teddy Stoddard.
Her children brought her presents, all in beautiful ribbon and bright
paper, except for Teddy's, which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper of a
scissored grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other
presents.
Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone
bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of
cologne. She stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet
was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume behind the other wrist. Teddy Stoddard
stayed behind just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my
mom used to."
After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very
day, she quit teaching reading, writing, and speaking. Instead, she began to teach
children. Jean Thompson paid particular attention to one they all called
"Teddy."
As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she
encouraged him, the faster he responded. On days where there would be an important test,
Mrs. Thompson would remember that cologne. By the end of the year he had become one of the
smartest children in the class and...well, he had also become the "pet" of the
teacher who had once vowed to love all of her children exactly the same.
A year later she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her
that of all the teachers he'd had in elementary school, she was his favorite. Six years
went by before she got another note from Teddy.
He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and
she was still his favorite teacher of all time.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things
had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would graduate from
college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson she was still his favorite
teacher.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he
explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The
letter explained that she was still his favorite teacher, but that now his name was a
little longer. The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that
Spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was to be married. He explained that his father
had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering...well, if Mrs. Thompson might agree
to sit in the pew usually reserved for the mother of the groom. And guess what, she wore
that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And I bet on that special day,
Jean Thompson smelled just like...well, just like the way Teddy remembered his mother
smelling on their last Christmas together.
THE MORAL: You never can tell what type of impact you may make on
another's life by your actions or lack of action. Consider this fact in your venture thru
life.
