Differences in husband and wife... checks and balances.
The husband and wife have different opinions about many
things. For example one likes to party more than the other. The one that likes
to get out more probably should not go so much and the one that likes to stay
at home should get out more often. If both partners spend too much money, then
they will go broke. So the one who spends too much should decrease their
spending and the one that is miserly should spend more. Neither one is right.
The proper amount is the compromise in between. And the parents will not agree
on the discipline of their children. One will be harder and the other softer
on the child. Neither one is right. The proper balance is the middle. That is
not the problems of the marriage but the checks and balances of the marriage.
If two men or two women raise a child, then the balance is not there. Don’t
look at these differences as a problem of your marriage. It is the good thing
that you are different and both bring something special to the table.
"Neither one of you are right… find that happy middle between
you."
